I went through all the agencies in San Antonio (and Texas actually) and narrowed it down to three. They are Arrow Child & Family Ministries (arrow.com); Caring Family Network (cfntexas.org); and Lutheran Social Services (lsss.org). It has been narrowed to these three because they are within the distance I was willing to drive to get to them.
I called all three this week. I started with Caring Family Network. A really great lady, named Ruthie, spent an hour on the phone with me, without a prearranged appointment, and answered every single question I asked and actually filled in some questions and answers I didn’t know I needed to ask. Next I called Lutheran but I got an answering machine so I hung up and called Arrow. I got the adoption case worker, John, and told him I had a ton of questions. He told me to pick my top 3. Not a good start John! It turns out John’s attitude was because they have a 3 hour orientation class that will answer all the questions I have. I ended up talking to John for about 15 minutes and he seems like a nice enough fellow. I called Lutheran back and got a machine again so I left a message.
Within minutes of hanging up with Caring Family, Ruthie emailed me a training schedule, an applications to get started, and several other documents she thought we might find helpful. Score 2 for Ruthie. John emailed me the training schedule for Arrow, and Lutheran called back and left a message the next day and also emailed a schedule.
Arrow’s orientation is on July 5th. Lutheran’s is on July 7th. Caring Family’s is on July 11th. We are going to do our due diligence and attend all three. Arrow and Lutheran have really high “Ruthie” standards to live up to. If they fail to impress, we will just get going with Caring Family on July 11th.
All the questions I asked are going to be way too much for me to type into a blog post. To give you the most important information, we have to get licensed, which will take 4 to 5 months. After that, kids will be referred to us or we can request kids off the TARE website (which I have learned isn’t up to date so don’t get your hopes set on anyone). With the kind of kids we are willing to adopt, Ruthie told me we will have kids referred to us in one day and that they may even try to push the license through faster so they can place some kids with us. After I hyperventilated for a minute, I got excited. We will probably have kids by next summer…but we could have some by Christmas!!!!!